In
Tonga people wear mats around their waist at any official situations,
like going to church for example. Women sometimes wear smaller
decorative things called kiye kiye, also plaited, but men always
mats. Whenever I asked what was the reason for this, I was always
told that this is to show respect.
I
have never seen the use of mats this way either in Samoa or Fiji,
which are quite close and of similar culture. I have seen similar
mats being used in Vanuatu but only during traditional ceremonies.
For example during a traditional part of a wedding, where similar
mats were used like money, to pay for the bride (some pigs were
apparently used for the same purpose). However, nobody used mats
during the church part of the same wedding.
It
is also interesting to note that in Tonga men seem to be more
conservative in the way they dress than women. In most countries it
is the other way around, women are more likely to put on traditional
attire whereas men wear trousers and T-shirts. In Tonga women seem to
wear western dresses while men come to church in a traditional
skirt-like lava lava.